Welcome to Balanced Parenting

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Parenting is one of the hardest jobs you will ever have…but you don’t have to do it alone!

If you are…
Fighting meltdowns, defiance or angry attitudes...
Exhausted at the end of a day with your kids…
Feeling like you have to argue or negotiate with your kids day and night…
Worried your children are not respectful or expect too much of you…
Tearing your hair out from your baby’s sleep issues…
Wondering if you expect too little of your kids...

Then you have found the right place! We are here to help bring peace and a balance to your family.
We are Balanced Parenting.


Through private sessions, parenting parties, and speaking engagements, parents all over Southern California are learning about the “Balanced Parenting” methods of raising kids to become great adults. 

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Have you ever wished you had an expert to help you in your parenting journey? Now you do! Join Bette and fellow parents to discuss your challenges, questions and kids’ quirks!

No cost to attend and children are welcome! 

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Value of the month: Compassion

This is a tough for a lot of people. We are all struggling right now so it’s hard to muster up the energy to remember that others are struggling too.
One of the best ways to deal with our own distresses is to focus on others for a bit. Who is hurting? Who is alone? Who needs a pick-me-up? Sending a gift or some flowers to a loved one who could really use them. Or simply a text of love to a friend.
 When we take the time to think of others we forget about our own troubles for a


"My 5 yr. old son was throwing tantrums and creating major stress in our family. After two sessions, Bette found the real issues and gave me the tools and encouragement to be a better parent. After a few weeks, my son’s behavior improved dramatically and just keeps getting better!”
Cm, Thousand Oaks